Thursday, May 31, 2007

HEY

a buyer just asked.......
WHAT happened to the 2 week turnaround??

can anyone steer her to a designer
who ships in 2 weeks or less??

If you are in the Los Angeles area

Walk Now for Autism

A reader shares this.....


I heard this old story before
Where the people keep on killing for their metaphors
But don't leave much up to the imagination,
So I, wanna give this imagery back
But I know it just ain’t so easy like that
So I turn the page and read the story again
and again and again
It sure seems the same, with a different name
We're breaking and rebuilding
and we're growing
always guessing

Never knowing
We're shocking but we're nothing
We're just moments, we're Clever but we're clueless
We're just human, amusing and confusing
Were trying but where is this all leading?
We'll Never Know

It all happened so much faster than you could say disaster
Wanna take a time lapse and look at it backwards
Find the last one and maybe that’s just the answer that we're after
But after all we're just a bubble in a boiling pot
Just one breath in a chain of thought
We're moments just combusting
We feel certain but we'll never, never know
It sure seems the same, give it a different name
We're begging and we're needing
and we're trying and we're breathing

Never knowing
We're shocking but we're nothing
We're just moments, we're Clever but we're clueless
We're just human, amusing and confusing
We're helping, rebuilding and we're growing
Never Know

Knock, knock coming door to door
To tell ya that their metaphor is better than yours
And you can either sink or swim things are looking pretty grim
If you don’t believe in what they're spoon feeding
Its got no feeling so I read it again and again and again

It sure seems the same so many different names
Our hearts are strong our heads are weak
We'll always be competing

Never knowing
We're shocking but we're nothing
We're just moments, we're Clever but we're clueless
We're just human, amusing and confusing
But the truth is all we got is questions
We'll Never Know
Never Know
Never Know

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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

will you

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Tuesday, May 29, 2007

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Monday, May 28, 2007

Another fun Blog

speaking of undertones


Anonymous said

Anonymous said...

I wish the references to high school would stop.

X says: I hate the term also, It was the reader who referred to the blog as high school.

High school was kind of tame compared to the comments I see here. Teenagers are immature and do stupid things.

X says:Alot of the women in the boutique community are YOUNG mothers just out of high school. But hey everyone has an opinion they want heard.

Some of the ADULTS (also MOTHERS) that make horrible comments on here must really have some nasty crap going on in their lives. Take note, your KIDS are learning from YOU (and they will be in high school soon!) Why don't you use this blog to PRACTICE the use of courtesy to others.
X says: I don't think you have to have nasty stuff going on in your life necessarily, to speak out against something you feel isn't right or disagree with.

This blog is a great help to those interested in online boutique, and if it had a nicer undertone in the comments section we'd see more of the "popular" designers commenting here.

x says: whew! (undertone .an underlying quality or element; undercurrent: )

First of all...the undertone is so very personal to each reader. There are MANY comments I read as honest responses, that others read as a personal attack. IF the comment is really MEAN I either don't publish it or if it does get by I remove it the second I am called on it.

your comment has the undertone of superiority to me...am I wrong?

Second of all YOU just wrote one the most annoying and HILARIOUS sentences I have ever read. Who are you to say the commenter's here ARE NOT popular?? I don't know who is posting so how can you assume only the unpopular of ebay boutique are here. UGH!!! UNLESS of course you feel that you and your friends are the most popular and you do not comment here.

They were here in the beginning and the nastiness alienated them. The fact that they did show up in the beginning might mean that they want another forum to comment in .

X says: Oh my dear....there are nasties in every perceived level in this community. Trust me. Popular and unpopular. In fact let me tell you I removed MORE nasty posts in April of 2006-November of 2006 than I have since. I don't know.....what does that mean??

Sunday, May 27, 2007

This is why


I love that sleeping puppy picture
this is my 5 yr old corgi
I was walking past my sons room and saw them both fast asleep
This is how she always sleeps, on her back

puts it all in perspective

Boy beaten to death while mom serves in Iraq

Tragic....its a sad world sometimes.

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after a long puppy break

We have to get back to it. Does it surprise ANYONE that people who are left out, kicked out, or
leave a group due to problems are going to have "a beef" When they see their former group mates go on to form other groups, they wont feel a twinge of rejection all over again. Or a twinge of annoyance they were left out. After all weren't they all friends?? That these people MIGHT even leave a negative comment or two when the group is mentioned. The high school shenanigans don't start here. They start long before. The hurt, jealous, and annoyed feelings come out here. As much as you would like to call the comments on this blog HIGH school. This isn't high school. The least you can do is take responsibility for the reason the comments are here in the first place. Read the comments carefully you will see the messages. As I have said MANY times. I am not the reason for problems in your group.

In response to the comment that this blog has changed....I say YES it has, in a way. When I first started I wrote about every group, Now several groups and sellers have asked that I do not now or ever mention them...Leaving me with less and less to post about on the blog. The comments are exactly the same as they have always been. If the blog has changed, it is you that has changed it.

Saturday, May 26, 2007

Take a Puppy break


I thought mine was the only Corgi who slept like a person
Until I saw the one below.

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Friday, May 25, 2007

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a question for BUYERS!!

I have a question for buyers regarding shipping insurance. Would you rather have the buyers increase their S&H amount by $1.30 (or more if auction is over $100) to include insurance, or leave insurance as optional to the buyer? Or, the seller could check the box that will make insurance mandatory, and will add the appropriate amount when buyer goes to pay. However if a buyer doesn't read the auction carefully they might not realize this extra cost until after the auction ends, and I'd hate to tick anyone off.

As a seller, I've always left this optional because buyers might not want the inflated S&H. I do say that I won't be responsible for lost packages because I want to discourage any scammers. However if a package actually got lost I would definitely replace the item, unless for some reason I was SURE that it was a scammer. (There is that scammer out there that was discussed here not long ago--she tried to scam one of my friends that way, by saying she never got the package. Unfortunately those types of people are out there.)

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Thursday, May 24, 2007

A buyer vents.......

Where is my custom.???? It is going on 2 months now. When I check on the buyer, she is always on her blog. Or commenting on one of her friends blogs
Playing tag, showing off her photography skills and craft projects. In the mean time I am waiting for what I paid for. If you are a buyer, and your custom is late, check to see if your seller has a blog. If they do, that could be your problem.

get me a can opener

X,
I have often wondered is there rivalry within groups? E.g.there maybe someone who does sets,totes,bows,shoes etc...what happens when one member repeatedly gets high dollar for their items and the others don't,particularly the accessories sellers. Do you think that groups should be linked by similar items or they should be diversified?


Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Sophisticated kids


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Questions you ask in a group

that gets your thread locked
  1. What are your pet peeves about auctions?
  2. I won a naming contest and I have not recieved my award,who do I complain to
  3. To use or not use a manni?
X,
How about asking readers what their pet peeves are about auctions?

X


I have noticed that many boutique items are ending with no bids, is it a sign of the times or are sellers pricing themseleves out of the market. Are buyers ever turned off by the starting price?

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Dear X


Why oh why can't we all act like we do in real life?? There are so many posts lately about mods, shilling, copycats..blah blah blah! Why can't people just get over it and stop whining and crying about the boutique world on ebay?? It's so not what real life is about. I'm sure that 99% of these women don't act the way they "type" in their real lives. If everyone would just stop griping, complaining, and talking mean..they could get a lot of productive work done. Just do your thing, do your best, create your best and that should be good enough!! Who cares what so and so is doing or how much $$ they are making!! Act like the wonderful women you are in the real world and life will be so much brighter for everyone!!
Signed,
"Tired of all this whining"

"I guess sometimes you need a place to "unload" the negativity. This seems to be the place whether I want it to be that way or not. This is THE PLACE they come. It is unfortunate, but the subjects you mention...shill bidding, backstabbing mods, and copycats, really happen in "real life" and doggone it if, sometimes you just HAVE to vent or you might explode. The fact that it spills out here may be due to the fact that when they can post anonymously, without retaliation, you get some pretty blunt, honest and mean comments. Raw emotion. Like it or not it is all a part of real life. The best part about it is YOU can chose not to read it, you can also take the information and go forth wiser, therefore going about your happy life ....HAPPY"

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Monday, May 21, 2007

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Amy Butler approved??

Lists with Azure Pear


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ON the MND

Here is a topic for ya!!!

A reader asks:

Free modeling services
(actually it's not free because you have to pay for
shipping to and from).

The real question I have is what do you do when:
- the pictures are grainy or otherwise cr@p
- they didn't stick to the idea or theme you wanted photographed AT ALL, and
- they can't reshoot because they waited too long to photograph it
- they got a stain or tear on your item
- they don't keep in contact with you
- they keep forgetting to return the outfit
- they say they'll ship to the buyer but it gets sent two weeks after the buyer
has paid?

Keep in mind that all these things happened even though you were very clear with
your instructions before sending the outfit out.

Photographing outfits is hard work so I compensate my models even when their
services are free. However with my last few experiences with free modeling
services I think I'll stick to my manniquin and learn how to take better
pictures myself.

Why oh why can't someone find a way to let other designers know who is not
reliable before another one of us gets burned? And what if the mom/model team
is fairly well-known with lots of friends who would think you are a meanie for
even mentioning it?

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Saturday, May 19, 2007

the MODS group

When you are in a group, does it bother you that there is a mod's group
YOU are not privy to.
There are discussions in regards to the group and members
You will never get to see.
Do moderators REALLY need their own group?? Isn't the IM or email good enough?

Designer X

As a buyer I am learning more and more things about the EBay boutique world, that has left me appalled. Quite often you see the same ids bidding on things. Then clear out of the blue you will see a non descrip id (low feed back) bid high amounts on some sellers. Should I be suspicious and stay away?

WELLLLLLLL, I just don't know..........what to tell you. I remember seeing some VERY suspicious activity several years regarding some ceramics I was watching. One seller continually sold to another from the same town, not only that their ID's were almost identical. So I turned them in for suspicion of shill bidding. Ebay investigated and found no shilL bidding.

THAT was the first and last time I ever reported someone for shill bidding.
ARE we ever really sure??
ON THAT note I want to mention that I got this news from a VERY trustworthy source
she doubted very much
THERE WAS NEVER ANY SHILL BIDDING GOING ON IN H2H
NOBODY WAS NARU'D DUE TO SHILL BIDDING
PAST OR PRESENT...as far as she knew..AND FINALLY
......WELL YOU WILL HAVE TO WAIT A FEW WEEKS FOR THAT!!!

ADORABLE!!!!!!

After taking a break


SHE IS back!!!!!

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